you cannot kill yourself unless you have exhausted the following options
- go on hrt
- leave your family’s house
- get a leather jacket
- spike your clothing
- make a fursona
- drink horchata
- go to a punk rock venue
- rp with your friends
- go to a national park for a day
every aroallo person whose had a “friends with benefits” style relationship with someone & regularly checked in to make sure that it was cool with the other person just for them to turn around and get angry at you and say you were leading them on and being shallow and manipulative should be legally allowed to commit murder
this has happened with me and like nearly every single aromantic person i know. i just think itd be cool if people could like get over themselves and use their brains and communication skills i think itd be cool
here is a helpful step-by-step guide to navigating your emotions when you are in love with an aromantic person
- dont lie to them
Bisan says that among all the aid organisations working in North Gaza right now, Ele Elna Elak is one of the most effective, geared towards resolving the water scarcity and making clean water and vegetables available to Gazans.
Donate if you can and share.
a few psychoanalytic sources on the Internet Archive that i personally vouch for
Freud
- an outline of psychoanalysis
- the origin and development of psychoanalysis
- the complete psychological works
- the ego and the id
- the interpretation of dreams
- introductory lectures on psychoanalysis
- a collection of critical essays
Lacan
- four fundamental concepts (other edition here)
- the ethics of psychoanalysis
- the limits of love and knowledge
- the language of the self
- seminar i: freud’s papers on technique
Sartre
Žižek
- the sublime object of ideology
- violence
- everything you always wanted to know about lacan (but were too afraid to ask hitchcock)
- the plague of fantasies
- in defense of lost causes
- enjoy your symptom! lacan in hollywood and out
others
- Read My Desire: Lacan Against the Historicists – Joan Copjec
- Imagine There’s No Woman – Joan Copjec
- gaze and voice as love objects – Žižek et al
- jacques lacan and the other side of psychoanalysis – Žižek et al
- a clinical introduction to lacanian psychoanalysis – bruce fink
- lacan: the absolute master – mikkel borch-jacobson
- lacan and contemporary film – todd mcgowan et al
I just want to let you guys know Cornell’s entire library is open access (no permissions required) and there are (shocker) many books…
wore a white dress and walked in the rain to the barracks so all the knights could see my skin peeking through the fabric and i said “oh my, excuse me ladies, it seems i got myself lost in the downpour… i’m all alone and no one even knows i’m here…” and they just gave me warm clothes and made me soup so i didn’t catch a cold and escorted me back to my room. i fucking hate chivalry
just watched the knight that escorted me pick up a maid and twirl her around and carry her back toward the barracks while she giggled and blushed and kicked her legs. fuck my extravagant princess life
I wonder if “we have to torture this special character. in the lab facility. with secret science.” is an interest all 12-year-old children share or were we just the generation exposed to Maximum Ride
You’re right. How could I forget to credit anime for its role in putting the special character in the secret torture facility (for science).
Genuine question: Isn’t this just Bond villainy and/or medieval torture dungeon? Or what kind of facility are we talking about?
The Facility is a critically important part here. See it’s a Science Facility. It’s run by a very shady clandestine organization, which is incredibly powerful. They’re maybe part of the government, or if not the government then something Illuminati-like.
As such The Facility is very high tech, and likely buried underground or hidden somewhere no normal person can access. The Torture being done is for Science, which the Facility is for. It’s all scientists in lab coats doing the torture. There is so much lab equipment and probably a lot of devices hooked up to the special character which will beep and go off the charts when the special character has a violent mind explosion. This part is important.
A lot of really good mentions in the notes here
- Mewtwo
- Secrets of Nimh
- Wolverine
- Akira
- Elfen Lied
- Shadow the Hedgehog
And a special mention to the couple of people identifying that a 12-year-old stuck in school all day is, perhaps, in a way, a special character being tortured in the science facility.
Epstein files discourse has me more convinced than ever that we need to be talking a lot less about “pedophiles” and talking a lot more about child sexual abuse.
I talked about how conservative authoritarians define “pedophilia” as “youth autonomy,” but even among less overtly authoritarian communities, the spectre of The Pedophile is, at best, a distraction from the reality of CSA.
“Pedophiles” are a distinct, discrete type of person. They’re Not Like Us, but also, they Could Be Anywhere. They’re hiding in plain sight among us, lurking and sabotaging. Anyone could secretly one of them. They’re queer, they’re Jewish, they’re vaguely foreign. They conspire. They’re a cabal. They have secret signals. They’re rich and powerful and secretly control governments, but they’re also poor and dirty and hide in alleyways. They’re sexually deviant. They’re everywhere and nowhere, and you should constantly be on guard against anyone who might be one.
Child sexual abuse, on the other hand, is abuse. It’s an action, not a type of person. Anyone can commit it, because it’s an abuse of power, and all adults and many other children have power over all children. Any adult has the ability to sexually abuse a child, because every adult has the ability to wield power over any child. Child sexual abuse is part of the continuum of child abuse, which in turn is part of the continuum of abuse, which can be committed by anyone who has the power to commit it.
The Epstein clients are the most prosaic phenomenon in the world. Rich, powerful people trafficked powerless people to force the powerless people to serve them. Rich, powerful people got away with breaking laws. Rich, powerful people uses people as objects – in this case, as sex objects, but by the same structural mechanisms by which they use people to clean their houses, pick their crops, and assemble widgets in their factories.
It’s not A Secret Cabal Of Pedophiles Conspiratorially Running The Government. It’s just kyriarchy working as intended. Absolutely, keep up the pressure to release the Epstein files and prove what we already know, but if you’re using “pedophiles” in a sentence where “illuminati” would make sense, put down the conspiracy juice and pick up the youthlib juice instead.